I've been writing and creating art, in one form or another, my entire life. As a young child, I found having a creative outlet to be very therapeutic and healing. Writing gave me a voice when I was too afraid to verbally speak the words, and art allowed me to express myself without fear of judgment. They were my equalizers in life.
As I grew into a young adult, I found my college English classes to be the easiest—but never dreamt of becoming a freelance writer for hire because all I could think about was marrying my Prince Charming and becoming the stereo-typical 50's housewife.
After graduating from college with an associate degree in Business Administration, I married my Prince Charming and together we had a few beautiful children. I loved being a stay-at-home mom, but as much as I wanted to remain that stereo-typical 50's housewife, the entrepreneurial bug kept beckoning me—until the day I listened and opened up my first homebased business. It took ten years of dabbling with different business ventures until I found my calling as a writer... and opened up an online magazine for BUSY parents, an e-book store, and a freelance writing service.
I ran the business from home, on a part-time basis, while I raised my kids—my first priority as a stay-at-home mom. I had a nice run, too.
I had 40K monthly visitors to the website and 9K e-zine subscribers. I acquired 12 new articles every month—all with no advertising budget, and before social media became a household name. And I had a fairly decent income. I can still remember the day I tallied my year-end revenues to discover that I had earned over $30,000! I couldn't believe it. I had worked so hard that year and it had finally paid off!
Fast forward several years and life took an unexpected turn...
During my children's high school years, I was faced with the realization that my role as the quintessential housewife/stay-at-home mom was quickly coming to an end and I'd have to let my baby birds soar. As with most women who watch their firstborns leave the nest, I began to experience the "empty nest syndrome". That, combined with my mother's death, my husband's job layoff, 2 bouts of Bells Palsy (on both sides of my face and each lasting 6 months), the beginning stages of menopause, and the isolation of small town life in South Dakota, led to a pretty bad case of depression.
Nothing seemed fun anymore. I had everything I wanted as far as marriage and family went. I had even built up a nice side business, but I wasn't happy. Slowly, I began putting less and less work into my business and it started to show. If I didn't turn things around soon, there wasn't going to be a business left to salvage... but I just couldn't get going.
Then one day my husband made an astute observation that turned everything around.
He said, “When we owned our own home, you were always creative: crafts with the kids, art on the walls, gardening, baking, dinner parties, gift making. I’d come home and never knew what to expect: what colors the walls were going to be, what the furniture was going to look like, how the yard was going to be changed. You don’t do any of that now. You haven’t in a long time. I think what is missing in your life is your creative outlet.”
Boy was he right!
It didn’t happen overnight, but with each piece of art I created, and each piece of art I gave away, I began to find myself again. I began to find my happy place—a place outside of being mom, wife, and entrepreneur.
After running out of people to gift my art to, and realizing that I just didn't want to go back to publishing the parenting magazine, I closed down that aspect of the business and took some much needed time off to reflect on my life... where I've been, what I've loved, and where I wanted to go. After re-energizing, I transformed the website into what you see now—a place where I can combine all my loves: freelance writing, creativity, and mentoring.
My hope is that this new venture will allow me to spread a little sunshine and joy with every creative woman I meet!
Thank you for taking the time to get to know me. Please drop me an email if you need assistance with anything, or if you just want to let me know what you like best about my products and/or services. I look forward to hearing from you!