Nothing halts a writer's creativity like an honest critique. I've been writing essays and articles for years, but I'm a newbie to the world of fiction. For almost two years I studied the craft, immersed myself in novels, went to writing conferences, and joined writer's groups. And even though I knew it could take years to get published, I thought I was different.
As a full time wife with no children there was nothing to distract me from pursuing my passion so surely my accommodating schedule would produce faster results. I also assumed that my ability to quickly produce a manuscript meant I had quickly absorbed all of the information I needed to know. So to “test the waters”, I entered my manuscript in a contest for unpublished novelists.
I expected above average scores. I thought I would place in the finals. When I got the results, however, my world crumbled. Not only did I not final, I didn't even come close.
My drastic miscalculation crippled me. I couldn't read or write anything. Novels taunted me. I could barely look at a novel, much less open one. And how-to books on writing frustrated me. I tried to force myself to keep writing. For hours at a time I sat at my computer hoping for inspiration. But nothing about writing appealed to me.
I had critique-induced writer's block. The stress of it effected every aspect of my life. I barely slept, rarely ate, and I despised writing my non-fiction articles. Writing was no longer fun.
I knew I had to do something but I didn't know what so I chose to focus on relieving the depression and the stress. That first step led to a series of steps that not only helped me relax, but eventually reignited my creativity and love for writing. Soon, every novel beckoned me to flip back its cover. Every how-to writing book I came across caused me to salivate. And I couldn't wait to start writing again.
If you, too, are experiencing a bout of writer's block—whether it's due to a rejection or the craziness of life—you may find these steps helpful in setting your creative spirit free.